He will carry you
(Deuteronomy 1.30,31; 4.29-31)
"The LORD your God is a merciful God; he will not abandon or destroy you..." There! Don't blame God.
Most of our disasters-in-the-works are due in some part to bad decisions either by us, or by someone else - but it affects us. Other difficult or catastrophic situations, not attributable to someone's bad judgment, fall into a category I term, "It could have happened to anyone else, but it happened to happen to you."
As a person with a serious illness recently said, "People say, 'Why you?' and I wonder, 'Why not me?' Do I deserve better odds and treatment than anyone else in society?"
In our society we tend toward personal entitlement - we 'deserve' better and more and easier. If it doesn't happen in such an idyllic way, we question God - or blame Him.
I don't know that God will ever reveal to you or me in some dream or vision the times He 'carried' each of us, as is so poignantly told in that poem and song about seeing footprints in the sand.
I do know from Deuteronomy 1:31 that it has happened in the past. "There you saw how the LORD your God carried you, as a father carries his son, all the way you went until you reached this place."
What you and I need to remember is this: our God is a merciful God; he will not abandon or destroy us...